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A buyer has won a dress, she has contacted me a day after winning said item to say she realised it is wrong size so won't fit here so doesn't want to go through with purchase. What are the next stages, do i leave negative feedback for her, and cancel...
Buyer placed bid, have been waiting over 9 days now, 3 emails sent one reply of buyer saying would of a specific day that day has passed and still nothing. can i just relist or what is the procedure thanks