Well your wrong on a few counts but I'll let the more experienced
ebayers help you. And your not forced to use PayPal , perhaps making
yourself familiar with how selling works on ebay using the Site Map
might assist you .
:^O:^O You'll just have to make a Sock Monkey from the weird socks and
send it back to the sender :^O Many of the sellers from China react to
messages that way , I think they are so scared of Neg feedback that
their immediate response is to 'refund' ...
It's unusual for sellers from China not to put their return address on .
Did someone buy it for you as a surprise gift ? I get a few of those
from rellies and by the time I've figured it out they go " oh yeah
that's from me , forgot all about that"
