Is seller violating policy not telling ebay have paid for item. Leaving item as unpaid, wen have.

I paid for item by direct debit, seller was very pushy bout instant payment. Had to be NOW. Sent copy of receipt via text message to his phone. Found seller very evasive, rude, arrogant wen i asked too many question about the item for sale after i had paid. Got my item in box, some of the contents he gave me, 2 pieces of contents were not there in the box. Questioned y give me some but not the rest. Wasnt logical or rational. Every question i asked was met with, how is that relevant, or, im within ebay guidelines, or how do u know i have those extra contents. Kept my cool through all of it. Was really hard to hav a proper conversation. This has never happened to me b4. All sellers i have met on ebay have been respectful towards me. This was nothing like respectful, the complete opposite. Was not used to this type of wat ever u call it dialog with a seller. Was a bit concerned about the manipulation i was getting involved in. It was not normal, far from it. I found there was something wrong, i became concerned the way the seller was acting. I found a very dark personality, almost twisted. I was answering his questions, but after the last, how is that relevant, i decided this game was over and asked if he was ok. His response, r u a retard? I looked at wat i was reading, then, after a pause, i wrote, no, yr not ok. Wat he text back to me was shocking, i was stunned. His reply, So would you just "F" off d-umb "C". Hav all proof on my phone, not going to upload a picture of it. Im still in shock. To make matters worse, he is not telling ebay i have paid for the item. So ebay think i havnt paid, wen i have. Told customer support to look at all my sent messages. Photos of receipt from bank i sent to him. Have reported him, have reported i have paid for item. Question, is seller violating any ebay policies by not telling ebay i have paid for item. Coz if he is, i can notify him of that. I have already asked him to tell ebay, but, its not happening, if he is violating any rulles by not notifying them, i can tell him that, and maybe he will tell ebay. Would appreciate all responses

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If you paid by bank deposit then you can mark it as paid.

 

Did you do that?

 

Seller won't open an unpaid item case, he's clearly had enough of you.

 

Move on

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@buyingandsellingmandy wrote:

Yes, im not going to bother bout the stuff thats missing.

 

Im going to get the camera checked next week at Teds Camera store.

 

Their the only Camera store near me. At Fountain Gate xmas time. Im actually dreading it. Fountain Gate is worse than Chadstone at xmas.

 

Teds also has the extra stuff i need to buy. Memory card, lens cap and usb cable.

 

Going to cost a bit to get the Nikon brand, but, i want to. So the camera ends up costing me more than $220 i paid for it.

 

This seller was strange from the beginning. The way he spoke to me was always evasive, never answering any of my questions.

 

Even when i asked, wats the best memory card to get, he said, any. He made out he was a photographer. I said, what would u recommend, all sorts. I said, personally what would you buy, watever. I never got a straight answer.

 

He was grumpy in the start, i sort of laughed it off as a joke, he didnt like that at all. I said to him, your very business like, coz he seemed tense with my questions. Almost rude.

 

 

I thought, woow, this is way out of control.

 

The rest is history. This was way too disturbing for me. Mentally violently disturbing.

 

 


I know exactly what Fountain Gate is like at Christmas time! I live near there too. Smiley Happy

If you get there before 9.30am on one of the weekday mornings (preferably Mon, Tues), you will most likely be able to get a parking spot. Good luck.

 

I've read the post by Digital Ghost. It sounds to me as if the seller you were dealing with is trying a few dodgy practices, most likely to cut down on fees. I had not heard of the methods DG mentioned.

The thing is, this seller did supply the camera, so he seems to be a legitimate seller.

But he may be wary of any buyer with problems because he wouldn't want his transactions coming under the microscope by ebay.

 

Don't feel upset about him not wanting to engage in conversation, some sellers just want a quick transaction and no hassles. His temper is not your worry.

 

I am wondering if, given DG's summary of what he is doing in his listings, if it could be worth your while reporting him or mentioning his methods specifically in ebay chat. Maybe write down exactly what DG said so you can explain it, as if they realise a seller is managing to sell things technically without going through ebay and paying fees, that should grab their attention straight away.

You were after information about policy violations. He isn't violating policy by not reporting a direct debit payment but I'd say he is if he is avoiding offering a safe payment method and selling off ebay. Well worth you reporting it as ebay may put a stop to it and at least you'd make it safer for other buyers.

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Is seller violating policy not telling ebay have paid for item. Leaving item as unpaid, wen have.

Your mistake for not paying by PayPal.

You are not covered using DD, it's the same as giving someone money for nothing.

 

Not marking it as paid doesn't make any difference to you.

All you get is one reminder at the beginning and that is all.

 

Unless the seller decides to open an unpaid item case then contact eBay.

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lyndal1838
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I do hope there is not too much money involved because it is almost certain that you have lost it.

There is no protection for bank deposit payments....you are entirely dependant on the goodwill and honesty of the seller and from what you have posted there is precious little of either.

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The feedback exchange between the OP & the seller makes for interesting reading.

 

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Indeed.

 

Puts a whole other aspect on it.

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Save the paragraph. And ditch the text speak. I got 3 lines in and couldn't be bothered trying to decipher the rest.

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Is seller violating policy not telling ebay have paid for item. Leaving item as unpaid, wen have.

Dave, I don't think it's 'text speak'.

 

They just can't spell

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imastawka
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If you paid by bank deposit then you can mark it as paid.

 

Did you do that?

 

Seller won't open an unpaid item case, he's clearly had enough of you.

 

Move on

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Is seller violating policy not telling ebay have paid for item. Leaving item as unpaid, wen have.

Honestly, I only understood half of what you wrote.

 

Chalk it up to experience - never pay by direct debit, no matter what a seller tells you.

No point in contacting customer support - there is absolutely no way for them to verify your bank deposit, no matter what documentation you show them.

 

Stop communicating with the seller and move on.

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Thanks for the info. First time on this site. Seems i should of kept it short, not like a story. Appreciate the help.

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