Pick up item

I wanted to buy an item and it is a pick up locally. The item was listed on Gumtree a while back and I was thinking of buying it then but had a slight discrepancy with seller so forgot about it.
If I buy item she will figure out its me and could dig her heels in and possibly cancel the sale(I'm not sure if she can do this)
I do have to go and pick up and am a bit apprehensive about it. She seems very fussy and demanding i. e. argued I couldn't take item on bus as it was too large which was rubbish. You can also make offer on item.
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@countessalmirena wrote:

Amélie...


Image result for amile turning to water

 

I adore that film, literally one of my all time favourites. (the image of her as a child eating raspberries from her fingertips has been my FB cover image for years Smiley LOL).

 

Ok, back to work, now I've gone way O/TSmiley Very Happy

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It's such a gorgeous and endearing film - wonderfully odd and oddly wonderful.

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@4channel wrote:

 

One day I'll do a thread on some of the horrid experiences I have had on ebay. A couple have been almost surreal. I'll also include a couple about an associate of mine and how he had been on the recieving end of some very very nasty dishonesty.



please don't! 

 

I'll save you some time . . .

 

. . . . rare, once in a lifetime, never played, never opened VHS tapes arrived damaged . . . . seller sent another set of the rare once in a lifetime tapes

 

. . . . . an associate won a turntable (?) from a UK seller for a good price . . . seller messages saying "I threw it out with the rubbish" . . . . you phone the garbage collection service IN THE UK and discover the seller lied about garbage collection day . . . . associate didn't get the turntable (?)


You're nearly right. Actually the Mega Rare, and I mean mega rare VHS tapes arrived but with plenty of hassle. They were poorly packed and the " rare, once in a lifetime, never played, never opened VHS tapes " could have been damaged. It was the ultra rare DVD set that was damaged. Luckily rather than go through the hassle with Pitney Bowes, the seller gave me the last set of DVDs. She sent them over.

 

And the associate had the issue with the seller that had a quadraphonic SQ 4 channel decoder. He won it for $40 when they usuually go for $180 or did back then. Seller came up with a story after 2 days of silence  .. ..  "Oh sorry, I dropped it on the floor and it broke". And when I said to seller that we could have a crack at fixing it (Which I can do with broken circuit boards) , seller said   .. ..   "Oh, it was collected in the rubbish yesterday".

 

Don't worry, my recounting will be of some other nasty experiences that I had.  I won't mention my horrible Pitney Bowes experiences. I was going to briefly include the  quadraphonic SQ 4 channel decoder experience that my associate had. But I was going to give a couple more examples that the poor sod encountered. One from an Australian seller that sold him a huge Sansui 4 channel amp that had a dead channel hot wired to a live one to give the impression all 4 channels were working. I was also going to share another one of his experiences where he purchased from a New Zealand seller, a Full Logic  quadraphonic SQ 4 channel decoder that had a distorted channel and other problems. After having delays by the seller in contacting him fior a resolution, the seller said .... " Oh, sorry, I am going to embark on an overseas world holiday and will be out of contact".

 

I kid you not!

 

Ah, I should mention the same guy won a decoder from a seller in the US and poor packing meant that the sharp underneath of the decoder guillotined the power cord. Seller refused to take responsibility for his shoddy workmanship and my associate had to do  ......   Hmmm hang on, maybe I had to do a repair job on the cord with block connector and electrical tape. It spoilt the look as the cord was no longer original.

 

So I may include the above with my own horrid expericences sir.

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@digital*ghost wrote:

@4channel wrote:
I really can understand your frustration. I'm concerned for you that if the seller is that difficult to approach here, just imagine if there's a fault with the item and how bad it will be to get the seller to do right by you.

 

 


How do you figure the seller is being "difficult"? 

 

All we know is that some attempt at negotiations took place but fell through over on gumtree, that the seller advised the item is too large to take on a bus (which OP thinks is "rubbish", but who knows...), and that the seller hasn't responded to any of the OPs offers (which they have no obligation to do).

 

 


I don't figure anything. I'm just tossing an idea around, merely considering a possibility.

 


 

 

OP, on the other hand, is talking about showing up to a stranger's house to confront them about not responding to offers, misusing police resources out of pettiness, and throwing around "defamation" with (seemingly) absolutely no sound basis.

 

And the take-away from this is that the seller is the difficult one? 

 


I'd say that Michelle is just voicing her frustration. I've heard people say   .. .. ..   "I've got a good mind to go there and" do such and such.  I doubt very much that she would go there.

Seller may indeed be difficult. Quite possibly as I have had some wiered experiences with sellers. I have always been courteous and suggested better options.  Here's an example.

 

* Seller #1: I purchased a 1970s newspaper from a US seller. He was going to send it as a parcel. I asked if there was another way and he said there was but the reinforced protection wouldn't be there and it would go as a large letter. I said ......  "fine  , don't worry, worse case scenario would be some creases on it". Great guy the seller and item arrived in great condition.

 

* Seller #2: Same type of newspaper, actually same publication. Also in the US. Seller and I had good dialogue leading up to my purchase. He sent me some pics of the article in the paper that interested me. I mentioned what I had done with Seller #1. I was polite all the way. Explained that the item was fine when it arrived etc etc etc . Straight after my message, the contact ceased. No explanation, nothing!!!!  I had tried to contact hm 3 more times and couple more over the following months. He refused to reply.

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Do you not see the disparity with what you're saying, though?

 

By which I mean the seller's actions (or rather, complete silence) being interpeted as something bad, while the OPs comments are dismissed as just venting and not meaningful.

 

Why is saying / doing nothing meaningful, but threats / venting is not?

 

Do you believe, even if the content of the posts are hyperbolic and there'll be no actual follow-through, that it indicates nothing about the OPs expectations of others, and / or how communication between the seller could easily escalate to a point where the seller might be better off not communicating? 

 

 

 

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@4channel

 

now I do not feel appreciated. 

 

If you only knew how much pain I was in when I recalled your bad experiences you would bow down and thank me for taking the time to do so from a hospital bed.

 

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actually, it is I that should be thanking you. The nurse told me to try an focus on something menial, trivial or of little significance to take my mind off the pain.  I straight away came to the boards and saw your post and thought "ah ha".
It worked for a little while . . . . enough that I could fall asleep and now am in less pain.
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Please keep posting these next few days. I need you to. 
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And don't be afraid to mention garden ornaments, the GSP, the GST, Pitney Bowes,  banking exec's, $50m golden handshakes or how good michelle is.

 

PS. I didn't read all of your reply to my post, just the first couple of paragraphs. I'm saving the rest for tomorrow night when I need another round of distractions.

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It's really a bit pointless discussing this here. What Michelle actually needs to do is: go to her local police station and inform them  that:

 

a) this seller has defamed her by refusing to respond to her offers;

 

 b)as a result of this defamation, she intends to go to the seller's house and confront her and needs a police officer to accompany her.

 

c) Michelle needs this  back-up in order to  (1)  ensure the seller doesn't assault her by either refusing to open her door or by shutting it again quickly  when she realises who her caller  is and (2)  so that the officer can  take the seller's  name and address and inform Centrelink that the poice have reason to believe t the seller may be getting welfare payments to which she is not entitled. 

 

In the face of such overwhelming urgency,  how could the police  possibly refuse their assistance?

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Welfare check is just a general term used, it by no means, means "Centrelink"., eg you haven't seen someone coming out of their house for a few days and are worried so send police around to check they're not injured or dead, or even the ambo's.
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JUST HIT THE BL00DY BUY-IT-NOW BUTTON and be done with this.

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Which would be a false report as you are well aware

 

Would you seriously pull such a stunt ? (silly question)

 

And it what way would this punish the seller?

 

or make them decide you must really want the item if you are willing to go that far

 

How do you know the seller is not reading this forum?

 

Not to mention taking away resources from someone who really is in danger or at risk

 

All because you want

 

As usual

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