on 08-01-2019 07:11 PM - last edited on 08-01-2019 10:30 PM by gewens
On 26 Dec 2018, I got a nice auction win on a mini-monocular. I paid for it on Paypal. The seller then immediately caneclled the order on Paypal and refunded my money. I sent a message to the seller asking why, and I got no response. I then complained to Ebay.
Ebay advised that the auction was cancelled at PayPal, and that I should not worry about the extremely annoying "Unpaid Item" that is still listed against the item in My Ebay Summary
I just left a Negative rating.
As per my previous thread of very similar title, I am of the opinion that Ebay should ban sellers that engage in such a practice for life.
Regards,
Renato
on 10-01-2019 01:13 PM
@phorum_junkie* wrote:I am so jelous that the OP has so little to worry about in their lives that they will spend so much time and effort on something most of us would just shrug our shoulders, say buglar and go on with their normal lives looking to sort out real problems.
You don't notice the difference between my little issue and the big policy issue.
Most everyone who has responded on this and my other thread seem to have had something similar happen to them, and most have shrugged and suggested I do the same.
So, if hundreds of thousands of Ebay users have had the same happen to them, then in total we would have hundreds of thousands or millions of dollars worth of transactions voided through the unethical mechanism of lying to the buyer and lying to Ebay, and doing so with impunity.
Not worth worrying or talking about, right?
Regards,
Renato
on 10-01-2019 01:15 PM
my first sale on eBay was back in about September 2009, just two weeks after joining and having only bought about a dozen items. It was a Mamiya camera that a work colleague had given me. He didn’t mind me selling it on eBay.
I had a 99c start bid with just $10 postage. Well, it sold for $5 and cost $25 to send once I’d packed it up with registration. I wore that loss, but many people wouldn’t be able to. That one act of wearing the loss is not sufficient for anybody to judge my character. I could be a really nasty person for anyone here knows. I have only met one board poster in person, and I am sure he’ll tell you I am a mighty fine human being . . . .
on 10-01-2019 01:21 PM
@countessalmirena wrote:
So... I will agree. "Poor form" would describe the seller's behaviour if considered from a neutral position, but I doubt any neutral position would feel compelled to have the seller suffer some sort of lasting injury, lose their job, etc. I'd be focused on communicating to the seller,
SpoilerI won't be calling for anyone's head.
In practical terms, your position is that when sellers do bad things like welch on a deal and ly to the buyer and to Ebay, that they should be told not to do it again - and hope that they will not do it again.
Which, from my perspective, is what currently appears to effectively be the case..
As a solution, to me, it doesn't seem to be working so well as an effective deterrent.
Regards,
Renato
10-01-2019 01:22 PM - edited 10-01-2019 01:23 PM
Renato, let me assure you that I do not consider my time as being ‘precious’. I retired two years ago (officially it is just one year as they kept paying me for 13 months after I finished - due to accrued leave) and I enjoy posting on these boards and do not consider it as taking up my valuable time.
Thanks for clarifying your judgement about the seller. As the actual buyer who has been wronged I see no problem with what you have posted about your impressions about their morals and ethics.
on 10-01-2019 01:34 PM
@springyzone wrote:
@ra157 wrote:On 26 Dec 2018, I got a nice auction win on a mini-monocular. I paid for it on Paypal. The seller then immediately caneclled the order on Paypal and refunded my money. I sent a message to the seller asking why, and I got no response. I then complained to Ebay.
Ebay advised that the auction was cancelled at PayPal, and that I should not worry about the extremely annoying "Unpaid Item" that is still listed against the item in My Ebay Summary
I just left a Negative rating.
As per my previous thread of very similar title, I am of the opinion that Ebay should ban sellers that engage in such a practice for life.
Regards,
RenatoYou say that bargains depend on goodwill.
Yes, that part is true, but it is also true of every other sale on ebay. The seller depends on the goodwill of the buyer to pay & the buyer depends on the goodwill of the seller to have a 100% accurate ad & to send the item off.
Do you mean that life isn't always fair? It certainly isn't.
You say that sellers who cancel an order should be banned.
I agree that sellers who cancel orders-it is not a good look.
But at the same time, ebay isn't in a position to enforce buyers to pay or sellers to post. And they also have to allow for the occasional problems & mistakes.
I would imagine the main problem on ebay with cancellations is not actually with bargains. It would be with some of their big sellers, their sellers with shops etc, who sell stuff then find they are out of stock in that line, or who are relying on drop shipping etc
Occasionally we do hear from people where they feel let down by a new seller who maybe didn't understand ebay so well, not selling at eg 99c. Sure, ebay could ban them, I suppose. But as I said, they aren't the major problem with cancellations-it will be the shops.
And ebay can't afford to ban & block every shop that has ever cancelled an item. Several of those shops would be sellers in the hundreds of thousands of sales range. You think ebay is going to ban them? Pigs might fly.
For the record, I buy from several online sites. Occasionally I have ordered something, only to have the parcel arrive and find on the invoice that such & such was not available & I have been refunded, so I may only have 2 out of 3 items etc
It doesn't happen often, but it has happened with about 2 or 3 different sites.
The main thing that will count with buyers is how often it happens. If it happens every second sale, you'd get frustrated. But consumers will put up with it occasionally. I have never had it happen to me on ebay. In the early days I did have a few purchases where I paid & I got nothing, no parcel & no replies & no refund. I was robbed, in other words.
I know you're disappointed but believe me, getting a refund beats that experience hands down. Ebay at least protects you that way now.
Thanks for your well thought out perspective.
What is missing though is the question of the penalty to act as a deterrence for the small number of times it happens. I don't see an effective one existing at the moment.
A life-time ban to an individual seems pretty reasonable to me.
To the big shops that you mention being culprits on occasion, well a month, two month or three month ban will most probably cause them sufficient financial loss to act as a deterrent, the total value of which will be far greater than the individual's life time ban.
If left to fester, the problem will only get worse.
Regards,
Renato
10-01-2019 01:49 PM - edited 10-01-2019 01:53 PM
@ra157 wrote:
You write,
"I have things going on in my life that would mean that if a seller did that to me I would just shake my head and get on with life and worry about things that are really worth worrying about and not whether I’ve been screwed over by a seller selling an item I know I can get for $17 from a local shop, you know, just $12 more than what my bid was!"
Using your own logic, you could just as easily think,
"This chap has written about a seller welching on a $4.50 item, not worth my precious time responding, get on with my life"
On my previous thread, you could just as easily have thought,
"This chap has written about a seller welching on a couple of $100 item, not worth my precious time responding, get on with my life"
Or you could have looked at both threads as,
"This chap raises an issue regarding irregularities in the transaction process on Ebay, where seller welch on auctions. I'll spend my precious time telling him he is wasting his time raising the issue, while asserting that I'm not defending the seller - and expend heaps of my precious time suggesting he not expend his precious time ."
just to clarify something . . . . . . I am not the poster who intoduced the word precious to this thread . . . . . that honour rests with 4channel.
on 10-01-2019 05:05 PM
@shoppingbag* wrote:
@padi*0409 wrote:
Yes, it's poor form not to follow through but I can't blame the sellers involved for not wanting to sell at a loss.
Spoiler...................but that is just my opine...........................Yes, very poor form indeed!. Sellers have a choice as to what price to start the Auction at, so cancelling because they were foolish (I could think of much more appropriate adjectives) is no excuse for not following through. I think it shows a lack of morals and ethics to do anything else. If they sold at a loss then it is entirely their own fault, why do the dirty on the innocent buyer?
Totally agree with you shoppingbag. The buyer is innocent and at the end of the day when seller is disappointed by low bids in their auction and makes an excuse that the item is lost or damaged or WHY, then the buyer definitely has the dirty done on them and I believe that is what has happened to our friend ra157. Not good thing at all.
on 10-01-2019 05:14 PM
@ra157 wrote:
@4channel wrote:Hi again ra157, I do remember your similarly titled thread from last year. I'm very sorry to hear that once again you have been mucked aound and your precious time has been wasted. This kind of carry one is now diminishing Ebay's reputation and making it look like sellers have carte blance to behave in such an irresponsible manner and with such impunity. It also encourages others to do the same. The more this is allowed to carry on, the more people will turn away from ebay.
BTW: You won the item, it should be yours! Sellers need to homour their auctions.
Hi there 4Channel,
Good to here from you again. Good to see we're on the same wavelength - mainly because I think we tend to assign great weight to the attributes of honour and integrity.
Regards,
Renato
Yes ra157, that's what it's all about. Being straight with the buyer and seller taking responsibility for an error if one is made. There's also another angle to all this as well. Some few might call it selfish in a way but I am a believer in karma, and doing the right thing does bring back good fortune later on down the track.
on 10-01-2019 10:03 PM
How is a seller going to honor their auction when ebay doesn't honor their responsibility towards the seller?
on 10-01-2019 10:47 PM
@k1ooo-slr-sales wrote:
Spoiler(in joke here) . . . . and not a 12 yr old girl!Spoilersome time back I posted that we don’t know much about the people who post here . . . . . and that for all anyone knew I could be a 12 year old girl!
Of course you're not a 12yo girl. A few years have passed since that, so I'm guessing you're around 15yo now?