I'm wondering if they put the thing in the shopping cart but looked at the ad again later and pushed the buy it now tab or whatever, because ebay doesn't usually give a message that you have committed to buy, go to checkout and pay for items that are just in the cart.
Blackmih's post is confusing in that aspect. If an item is just in his cart, he needs to remove it.
Or he could just mean he committed to buy but now doesn't want it and wants the sale cancelled and no reminder of it showing. That's how I am interpreting it.
If he has somehow committed to buy & doesn't want it, then I agree with sons n daughters that the best solution is for Blackmih to just not pay. He isn't going to anyway, we can tell that from his post. I don't think it is bad advice to give a buyer, it is the most straight forward way out of a mess like this. The seller can very easily claim an unpaid item and give the buyer a strike.
It's not that I like to see sellers messed around, just that I think realistically, it's the safest bet for sellers.
