How is everyone?

[Anonymous]

I wiull probably get a smack for this, but, here goes.

Wilma, how is Neil? My email is playing up, so until I get it fixed I thought I would post this.

So..sound off please...............Linda here, and, I am slightly twisted, but good.LOL

[islandretro]

Sincere condolences MissLinda

Rae

[Anonymous]

Thankyou so much everyone, for your kind words, they do help. It has been a busy day,time for a rest.  Les' little dog is lost, he is sleeping on the bed with me, I don't have the heart to lock  him up.

[grannyfrogsmith]

The little dog is  missing Les as well,he can be a comfort to you ,talk to him you both will benifit  from it.

Animals have a feelings as well but animals cannot speak but will show you in "their way" how they have lost a friend and loved one.

Do hope you did rest.

[Anonymous]

We managed to bury Les just the way he wanted.  Hannah says Poppy is a star in the sky now, but has a remembering box down here.

I rang his eldest brother, he knew what Les wanted, told him I wasn't telling any of the others, but, he could, sooooooo if all hell is going to break loose, reckon it won't be long coming. 

Tomorrow starts a new chapter of my life, wonder what it will bring,.

[grannyfrogsmith]

Who cares if "all breaks loose"

You gave Les what he wanted and asked for,that is the most important thing.

How is the little dog?

Just love what Hannah said.

[putney32]

Dearest dearest Linda, you did the right thing by Les, thats all that matters, dont worry about the ''rest of them''. please♥

Your 'new life' will start out very strange, but I am sure, with your family's help, you'll enjoy your new life and become a slightly different, but still the same, lovely person.

[lind9650]

Dear Missllinda,

As Putney said, your new life will feel strange for a while. The emptiness, feeling useless and abandoned from the one you cared so much about. Then will come the anger with lousy family attitudes and not knowing what the future holds.

But --- then comes the realization about the real you. The person you really are and have hidden so long to please the one you loved. Yes, that is the time you will realise your freedom to be yourdelf, to do what you want to do when you want to do something for yourself.

It will take time and you will have your ups and downs. Just come here and talk to us. Yell and shout, cry and let it all out. The best thing is to be able to talk to good friends that care about you, and all of us here are there for you if you need a shoulder to cry on or an ear to listen. Many of us have been where you are now.

Lots of big hugs and love to you.

Erica :-x

[Anonymous]

Thanks girls, you are all so wise.  I will just take each day as it comes, I know I will be ok.

Thankyou to you all for your support throughout the last couple of weeks, it is really good to be able to come here and chat and ask for advice, I appreciate each and every one of you.

[singingyamada]

You are wonderful honouring his wishes.  There is a very good thought that you do nothing for a year as it takes a year to go throught everything that he would have been a part of. You dont get over grief, you get used to his not being here. Threre are many hard times of the day to get used to let alone week, month, but we are all here for you.

[2chappies]

Well said Lee. 🙂

Linda, I'm happy that yesterday went well and you honoured Les' wishes.  Nothing else matters. :-x