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[cat_mioux]

:^O

[Anonymous]

runs in to give miss cat a cuddle :-x
supposed to be working :8}

what everyone else said its his guilt not yours..


http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=7_IKcMl_a9A

[cat_mioux]

Bingo! and just like that you're back in power. Don't let him take it back form you again. Go girl. You can do this.

You promised you'd be there for me, reaching out. Thank you.

I will do you proud! I promise that. :-x

flannie - LOL The final countdown. Sheesh now that songs stuck in my head. :^O Fanks for the cuddle.

[cynthecowgirl]

cat, you're not doing this for me, you're doing this for you. That fact that I get to see you happy and proud of yourself at the other end, however far away that end may be, is incidental.

[cat_mioux]

cat, you're not doing this for me, you're doing this for you. That fact that I get to see you happy and proud of yourself at the other end, however far away that end may be, is incidental.

I know cyn. I want to be proud of myself. In fact I am damn proud of myself. Okay I've had a few little bumps :8} but understandable really.

[tende60]

Morning ladies...

Wow, so many sad stories, but what a great place for everyone to come to and get inspiration. :-x






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[cynthecowgirl]

Just remember this....and it kinda makes you feel a bit sorry for them. But imagine how it would feel to be in their shoes. Imagine how you would feel if it were you not Mr Nonads having the affair. Imagine the guilt and shame you'd feel. Imagine how you'd just want to crawl under a rock and die rather than face people with them knowing just what kind of person you actually are. A person of few morals and blatant disregard for others feelings. Especially concerning those who love and trust you the most and who should be able to love and trust you. Imagine. It'd be awful. I'd rather die than be that person.

But you see, there is the difference. We wouldn't do that. I know I could never dream of putting my worst enemy through what I've been put through. I couldn't even begin to imagine taking a compete strangers life, their kids life, their friends and families lives and just tossing it all to the wind. Ripping their hearts put and stomping all over them. Never.

Why is that? It's because we are the better people. They can't see that because they are being so self absorbed and selfish at the moment. Who knows if they'll ever see it.

At the end of the day we will be able to walk down the street and not be ashamed of our actions. We will be able to look at ourselves in the mirror and like the person we see. We will be able to say that we've never lied, cheated on hurt the ones who should have mattered most. They will NEVER have that. EVER again.

[cynthecowgirl]

Okay I've had a few little bumps but understandable really.

cat, you have no idea how well you are doing. It took me months to get to where you are now. Months. Some days I don't think I'll ever get over it and the hurt and pain is as raw as day one. But overall I mostly have good days now and when the bad days come I let them. I go with the flow, have a cry, lock myself away from everyone and go woe is me, but I know tomorrow will be better and once again I will be ok. I know I'll be ok coz I'm not them and that makes me happy again.

[cynthecowgirl]

tende, they aren't sad stories, they are pathetic. Pathetic that other human beings can treat someone else like this.

I remember sitting in my ensuite in foetal position loudly howling my heart out. Richard cranium came in and said, "what's wrong?"
Frm amongst my sobs I managed to say, "why are these women doing this to me, I don't even know them."He didn't even bat an eyelid, just stared at me blankly. I knew then I'd lost him. He didn't offer me a word of comfort, explanation, anything, just stood there for a bit then walked away. That's how self absorbed in their won little world they become. Would you even dream of walking away from someone in such obvious pain? No you wouldn't, because you're a decent human being. Yet these pathetic creatures do.

Poo to them. We are the better people and this thread proves it. Strength to anyone out there with a breaking heart. Can't wait to get my orange undies on and stick it right up them.:-x

[bizzylizzy_daisy]

(Quote)What you are doing by stewing over something that somebody has done wrong is:
renting them a room in your head............. and that is the most private space we have....(Quote)

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[puddleback]

In honour of the occasion captain OK is here for the duration of the countdown!