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[cat_mioux]

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[cat_mioux]

Hi lovely people!

Happy 6 month birthday to gorgeous Samantha!

Ms Jacks let us know how you are :-x

Hi Mindtoobusy, it's been a long cold winter and even though I love winter, this has been rather a tad too cold and wet and grey. I hope you are feeling better.

I've decided I've been whingy lately and I'm on a 7 day mission to stop complaining (I have nothing to complain about really!). If I start complaining in my head I stop myself and repeat "The Universe is good, The Universe is kind, I am loved".

Wow! I had to say that about a dozen times before I even got out of bed. :^O

Have a wonderful day everyone.

[jack*in*a*box]

Hey lovely people

My world is rubbish right now.

My mum's partner (who she moved in with 6 months ago) won't allow me take my mothers things from the house yet. Apparantly he is too upset. Despite him calling me on Sunday morning asking me if it is ok that he keep my mums car.

My brother (and part executor of the will) called me every f word under the sun yesterday and said that I am being unreasonable.

I'm so flaming angry.

Miss 15 made an appearance yesterday and stole my $300 hair straightener along with other things.

Life is crap for me right now. My mothers birthday is on the weekend

I do hope everyone is doing better than me and I apologise for my rant. Love yas :-x

[thebraff]

Hello everyone.

Big higs and hugs to you all and very special hugs to MsJacks.

MsJacks, did your mother have a will? I am not sure that her partner can just 'ask' for the car.  Surely it would be part of her assets.  Is that why your brother is not happy with you?

If your brother is part executor, who else is an executor?

You have too much to contend with at the moment on an emotional level to take carp from your daughter.  Is MrExJacks helping out in that regard?  Maybe, he could be more involved with her problems to allow you to concentrate on sorting out your mothers things and handling your grief.

He partner may be 'too upset' at the moment, but so are you and you really need to try and work together.  Also, you have known your mother longer than her partner so explain to him that you are extremely upset too but you know that it needs to be done.

Every f word under the sun.  Oh dear - flaming fantastic, funny, fabulous, friendly.  Yep, I would have used those words too.

If you would like to have a chat at all, just message me with your number (or request mine) and I will call you.

You may yell at me on the phone to let off steam if that is what you would like.  ♥

Take care Jacks.  :-x

Ms Cat, Mindtoo, MIA, Kylie, She Ele, YCDI, Cuddly, Blacksheepy and all who venture in here.  I hope you get past all the illnesses and self doubts and get your mojos back.

[blacksheep9772]

Well said Braff!  Well said.  😉  (LOVE those "F" words too!) :-x

CJ I can't offer any more words of wisdom that hasn't already been said.  (BTW, I thought of the same thing about your mums car and it being one of her assests etc)  I wish I had the power to make life all OK for you again.  I know you are having a rough time.  It wont always be like this.  YOU CAN GET THROUGH THIS.  :-x  We are all right behind you hon.  :-x

[blacksheep9772]

CJ, I forgot to mention - there is absolutely NO reason for you to apologise for your "rant".  GO FOR IT!!!  Rant all you want!!!!  Whatever you feel - let it out.  :-x

HUGS HUGS HUGS  :-x:-x:-x

Lotsa love to everyone else too.  We all have our own 'things' to deal with hu?  Whatever you are dealing with at the moment - I would like to send you all strengthening energy.  Be strong, whatever your fight.

* Puts on OK's in support of my peeps who may need it right now *  🙂

[kyliecrv]

C*J.... huge cyber ((((((HUGS))))) So not fair that you also have the stress of your teenage daughter right now 😞

Thinking about you this weekend, Im sure it will be very sad. Have a glass of wine and toast mum, Im sure she's watching over you and would be upset to see you struggling like this ♥

Im just getting over a 48hr tummy bug, wiped me out! ALso had Mr 13 home for 2 days with (man) *boy* flu!! LoL He's slopped on lounge watching the footy right now.

Hubs has been tired lately... pretty much his usual!

Miss 15 has had one of her new ear piercings get infected, so we had a Dr visit with antitablets and cream, it should be ok.

Miss Samantha, well she's an angel, as usual! ♥ lol

Will pop back in later if I can, warm wishes and hugs to all that lurk and post! X

[cynthecowgirl]

Hello everyone, I'm back! I haven't been gone I was just lurking lots coz for some reason unknown to me I lost the ability to reply to threads. I'm such a nuffer, tonight I noticed a log in option and clicked that..................and logged in 😮 I didn't even know I'd been logged out!

Anyway I'm back and I have been keeping up with everyones goings on and sometimes I've been just busting to reply. (silly me)

Anyway love and hugs to those that need them. I have been taking notice of what's going on in your lives.

I wonder how I got logged out? ?:|

[jack*in*a*box]

Cynth..wasn't me 🙂

Mum's birthday today and I'm struggling. Keep finding myself with her favourite songs playing in my head. I keep remembering the little 'habits' she had like curling her hair round her finger.

My brother and I are both executors of the will. I think he has had a change of mind (probably spoke to another female) about my want to hold something of mums.

Have a great weekend OKers and thank you for your support through this really horrid time I'm having.

Miss 15 is nowhere to be found again *sigh*

[cat_mioux]

Cynth! Welcome back! Yes you are a duffer but a lovely one. After all this time it was just a Log In problem :-x

How have you been?

Jacks sweetie be kind to yourself today. Happy Birthday to your Mum :-x Of course you should be allowed to have anything you want to remind you of your Mum.

When my Grandmother died I chose a few things but I'm so happy I also chose her old fashioned flour sifter and her cake rack. They must be at least 60-70 years old! I still use them and everytime I do they give me happy memories of cooking cakes in her kitchen when I was a little kitty.

When my Mum died I chose her astrology books because that's the memory I hold of her, doing her astrology charts on the dining room table.

Hugs to Mrs Braff, Kylie, Cuddly, YCDI and all whom post.

♥♥♥♥♥

[cat_mioux]

Blacksheepy I shall assume the position for a big spanking for forgetting to say hi!  :_|

:-x