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[cat_mioux]

:^O

[**dilly**]

Hey Cat, just popping by to say hello and send positive thoughts to you :-x

[the_great_she_elephant]

Sunday hugs, Cat. (((xxx)))

I do agree with getting some expert advice to know exactly where you stand legally. You will probably never have to use it, but think of the satisfaction you will get from knowing YOU COULD IF YOU WANTED TO. ]:)
A bit the same as making him aware that you could tell the skank's husband if you wanted to.

[kengillard]

more hugs cat ((((hugs)))....you are doing extremely well!♥♥♥

[kengillard]

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A bit the same as making him aware that you could tell the skank's husband if you wanted to.

excellent advice.....no harm in having amunition if/when needed.

[azureline**]

and I would be there as he packs...'cos he may think some things are his...which may not be?

[cat_mioux]

what a knob head

cut a hole in the back of all his jox so everyone can see what an butthole he is

Hey Cat, show us a pic of that Buddha he's taking,
and we'll buy you one infused with love

(or I could just nick the one reclining on Freddie's coffee table)

:-x

:^O

I have a few Buddha statues but this one is infused with stability and groundedness. In Buddhism even inanimate objects are infused with one or more of the Ten Worlds according to the person/s who created the object. So if the person/s are infused with Hunger (greed to make money) then that's what the object expresses. If the person/s are operating from the world of Buddhahood then that's what the object is infused with.

okay Buddhism teachings over ...

just thought I'd share that 🙂

I still have my beautiful Buddha on my altar that my future son-in-law bought me in Thailand and the one my friend had carved in Vietnam. Now they are special :-x

And maybe Mr Ex taking the statue is a good thing? He may look at it one day and suddenly realise everything he has done has it's consequences i.e karma. Who knows?

But I do know and understand I need to chant/pray to change my bad karma to good karma. I've been betrayed by every man I've been with including my own father. But I believe, because of all the chanting I've been doing for my fathers happiness (he is dying of cancer, in the last stages), we have resolved our relationship. I feel so at peace with him, We talk on the phone and I'm going to visit him again tomorrow. Now that is a miracle. And through healing my relationship with my dad, I can start to heal my karma with men.

PS And another miracle - dad has been pain free for the last fortnight and has stopped all pain medication and he sounds happy!

[cat_mioux]

excellent advice.....no harm in having amunition if/when needed.

Lovely elephant - ringing the estate agent tomorrow re: getting the bond money put in my name only. Mr Ex has agreed to waiver his half of the bond to me for a deal we made.

[bpuppydog]

OK, I have absolutely had enough of this guy. Here comes my list of things to think about today. Some are sensible suggestions, many come under the category of revenge, possilby petty. Fun to think about if nothing else:

1. Photograph any item that he is taking that you actually like and make a note of the make/model/colour/whatever will help us identify it later. He will wind up taking stuff so we may as well get geared towards replacing the bits you do like. Obviously don't give up any of those things without a fight, but at least we have backup.

You've got an army of friends here and we can fix that stuff.

2. Look at it as redecorating? Annoying not to have a couch, but did you really like that one anyway? Maybe we can do better once his carp is out of the house.

3. Obtain the business card of a divorce lawyer and leave it with your pile of important papers where it will be found. They say a little sweat is good for the soul. Let's find out, shall we?

4. Reconsider telling the real estate that he's going - until it suits you financially. You don't want them to end your lease because they've decided you can't afford it on your own.

5. Volunteer to help on moving day. Make sure any stuff you don't want goes into the van. Don't want to have to pay for a skip to get rid of his stuff! Depending on how nice he is to you about this, that list of stuff may well include last week's garbage.

6. Why wait for karma? He's still in the house, let's make him regret that. Redirect his mail to a friends address, and put all the bills in the bin. Hilarious when his mobile gets cut off.

7. Remove one key. Everyone has one important-but-rarely-used key on their key ring. You know, for the boat, bike, shed, whatever. That key is calling out to you, Cat. Go get it X-(

OK, I'll leave it alone for now. Obviously this is one of my few talents and I have plenty more suggestions, but I do understand that "the line" for most people is a long, long way behind me :^O

[**dilly**]

bpuppy you are turning into one of my favourite posters, love reading what you write....top personality :-x

[small_creeps_friend]

Bpuppy, I luuurve the way your mind works :^O