on โ24-01-2011 10:15 PM
on โ15-06-2011 06:10 PM
G' Morning to all the OK'ers, I hope today is a better day for you Catty โฅ
Flannie, my Brother is having some good some bad day's, I think he has one more chemo session to go, I guess until his chemo has finished the road will be up and down. Thanks for asking โฅ
on โ15-06-2011 06:27 PM
on โ15-06-2011 06:37 PM
hello ms mioux ๐
sounds like a rough few days for you (hugs)
It's great that you're taking time to think and it would be good to think of how this is affecting mr ex, too. (not that he deserves it...but I know you have a caring heart)
If you keep accepting his emails answering them etc., what message is it that you are sending him?
we can see the aftermath of his emails to you, but when you answer them, you are giving him hope.
Sorry if this sounds harsh...I don't mean it to.
I, and I'm sure everyone on here only want you to be happy, but by keeping that thin thread of hope alive, you are hurting yourself and mr ex.
I think you have done sooooo well and you should be proud of being strong when I'm sure you've felt like a puddle of jelly. I really think this breakup is about you learning to concentrate on fixing the things in your life that you have control over and that doesn't include other people.
An extremely hard lesson to learn but one that will make you a person who can be happy with themselves and if you do meet someone in the future, he will enhance your life not be a project for you to "fix".
I know you will always care for others and now it's time to care for you.
:-x
on โ15-06-2011 06:42 PM
on โ15-06-2011 11:38 PM
on โ16-06-2011 12:11 AM
on โ16-06-2011 12:22 AM
on โ16-06-2011 12:24 AM
on โ16-06-2011 01:23 AM
Take that thread Ms Mioux. Hold it in your hand, look at it, turn it over, examine it, if you will......
and then imagine taking it in your hands and gently breaking it.......see it float away.....curling and swirling away into wherever ....infinity......
This of all days, is a great day for new beginnings.
It is bound to be a day thinking of what might have been, but try to concentrate on just here, right now.
Just here right now, you have everything you need. You are OK. You are enough. Just you......
Sincerest birthday wishes to youโฅ
on โ16-06-2011 02:52 AM