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[cat_mioux]

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[kyliecrv]

♥ spreading some lurve to all the cysters! :-x

[jack*in*a*box]

Higs and hugs to all OKers ♥

Yes Braff, James is 19 years old. So doing really well for his age.

I'm doing OK. I'm still in contact with Mr. Potter but its a friends with benefits kinda thing. Spent a good deal of time with him over the last few days but he's been with 'other' partners and I'm not happy about that. I'm still emotionally involved which is contradictory to what he wants.

Anyway... thanks for listening my special cyber friends xxx

[cat_mioux]

Hi amazing wonderful OK'er's! :-x

Ms Jacks - Mr P has other 'partners'? X-(   You are an amazing, strong, caring, funny, gorgeous woman Jacks. Someone who can appreciate that deserves you. That's my 2 cents. :-x

Higs and hugs and a 0/ to everyone here. Stay strong.

[jack*in*a*box]

Thank you Cat. "partners' is not the right word. More bed buddies.?

Anyway, it's proving to me that I am losing who I am and  tying to hold on to the man I had, not the man he has turned into. I have more respect for myself that to put up with that! How does not exclusive bed buddies make sense when we got shopping together and spend hours out together? Sounds like a relationship without a relationship tag and being in an open relationship. He says he doesn't want a relationship with me. Hmmm.

Yeah yeah. I know it's time to let go but I'm still emotionally attached and he left that a long time ago it seems.

[jack*in*a*box]

Men tend to have a much easier time being bed buddies with someone that they even look for others. It's not exclusive to one. Whats the go? They really are from Mars!

[my2cuddlycats_not]

Awww Jacks :-x:-x:-x

He doesn't deserve you. Stupid male. One day he is going to wake up and realise what he has lost, and it is going to be far too late for him.  

Higs and hugs

[jack*in*a*box]

Thanks my3. I doubt it muchly.

Master 7 stil asked this morning if Mr. P was coiming over. I again had to tell him the situation in simple terms. He is missing him too. 🙂

[cat_mioux]

Anyway, it's proving to me that I am losing who I am and  tying to hold on to the man I had, not the man he has turned into. I have more respect for myself that to put up with that! How does not exclusive bed buddies make sense when we got shopping together and spend hours out together? Sounds like a relationship without a relationship tag and being in an open relationship. He says he doesn't want a relationship with me. Hmmm.

Yeah yeah. I know it's time to let go but I'm still emotionally attached and he left that a long time ago it seems.

Spot on Jacks.

He's having all the benefits of a relationship, in his mind, without the commitment. And you have allowed him to do that. Tell him this:

"Listen buddy. I have certain expectations and needs from a relationship. This kind of relationship isn't deserving of me. Shape up or ship out."

If he ships out ... good! You will open the door to a BETTER relationship. One that serves you!

[cat_mioux]

BTW of course your allowed to have emotional feelings for him. That's what human beings feel when they care about someone. Mr P is not caring about your feelings.

[toon_town_nutter]

Not good Jacks. Give him the flick.