Divorce

[dynogrl]

Not sure if anyone remembers.....  thought I'd do an update anyway.

I haven't been on the boards for a long while, just a lurk or two everynow and then...

I ended my 24 year marriage June last year and finally had my divorce granted last week....less than a month and it will be absolute!

It's been a hard 16 months but I finally got here and couldn't be happier...can't say the same for the ex LOL, he's a sad sorry mess that isn't working and is homeless 

[freshwater-2]

It doesn't necessarily need to go anywhere, Dyno.

Just enjoy the experience.   There willl be others lining up too......it is all about the Two L's.....lust and laundry.

[*pepe]

you seem almost gleeful that your kids dad is not doing well.

that's pretty sad.

[dynogrl]

I'm not gleeful he's not doing well, but I'm not sad for him. He put us through hell and is still doing it to our kids...... I hope he gets his life together but won't hold my breath. Try not to read too much between the lines Pepe....... you have no idea

[*pepe]

i commented on the words you have posted here and in the past, not between any lines.

[dynogrl]

My apologies, I was unaware you knew my thoughts better than I do... I must be a sad little woman then, best I pull my head in

[freakiness]

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@dynogrl wrote:
I'm not gleeful he's not doing well, but I'm not sad for him. He put us through hell and is still doing it to our kids...... I hope he gets his life together but won't hold my breath. Try not to read too much between the lines Pepe....... you have no idea

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It's a shame he's being such a knucklehead over things still.  Obviously he cares little about the hurt he must be causing his daughters by his public display of becoming the local bag man. 

[cherry*135]

I would assume the ex was riding on the back of the OP (who looked after the family, home & worked) for most of his adult life.. time to sort himself out.

[dynogrl]

The moment I withdrew support he spiraled into the mess he is now..... sad sad creature!

[freddie*rooster]

Good to hear you're doing so well Dyno, but, I do feel sorry for your OH, it's sad to hear such a sad situation for him.

He has mental illness, is that right? Does have an addiction as well?

[newstart2380]

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@dynogrl wrote:

Don't be sorry. I'm not...I'm the happiest I've ever been!  

Rest assured there is no pity party from me for the ex...he has enough pity for himself LOL

It's my teenage girls that I feel sorry for....  they have to deal with a dead beat Dad that lives in his car at the local Maccas

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Girl power, I am happy you are happy. who needs a man forever ?

I think women should be like the black widow spider, get it on and then eat him LOL.