on 09-03-2021 09:00 PM
Is it wrong to compliment a lady on her cleavage or is this consider sexual harrassment? Is it any different than complimenting her on her attractiveness or physique? Is this another one of those social constructs of what is acceptable and what isn't?
Why would some women expose their cleavage and get offended if others looked?
GO
on 09-03-2021 09:04 PM
Of course it is wrong to look at a womans cleavage.
You should be looking at her BooBs
on 09-03-2021 09:14 PM
Quite right, when heading towards goal, lower your eyes.
on 09-03-2021 09:20 PM
@the_bob_delusion wrote:Is it wrong to compliment a lady on her cleavage or is this consider sexual harrassment? Is it any different than complimenting her on her attractiveness or physique? Is this another one of those social constructs of what is acceptable and what isn't?
Why would some women expose their cleavage and get offended if others looked?
GO
The heading was LOOKING, but the body was commenting. Do you know the difference?
on 09-03-2021 10:24 PM
Who knows
on 09-03-2021 10:41 PM
Glancing? Not a problem with that, but if you are carrying on a conversation with her and staring at her breasts the whole time instead of her face.....that's very very wrong.
Complimenting her on her cleavage? That depends. I would say most of the time that's an emphatic NO. You might say something flattering about nice she looks but keep it general.
However there may be an exception....if the lady has just had a breast enlargement or reduction and is clearly fishing for complements, by all means say something nice....but be careful - nothing sleazy or in bad taste.
on 10-03-2021 12:12 AM
10-03-2021 12:19 AM - edited 10-03-2021 12:22 AM
@the_bob_delusion wrote:Is it wrong to compliment a lady on her cleavage or is this consider sexual harrassment? Is it any different than complimenting her on her attractiveness or physique? Is this another one of those social constructs of what is acceptable and what isn't?
Why would some women expose their cleavage and get offended if others looked?
GO
No, I don't think so, depends how you compliment - do you just stare at them drooling, or do you actually speak?
Now touching - THAT would be WRONG and dangerous
on 10-03-2021 12:28 AM
Probably best not to comment, but if looking is wrong, I don't wanna be right...
on 10-03-2021 12:39 AM