on โ19-01-2014 06:20 PM
I and 2 other neighbours have been made ....by default.... responsible for our neighbours health. She's been sent home from hospital after 10 days, having spent a day and a night in the rain on the concrete outside her back door. After I found her, I called the ambulance who tried to get her to come with them....refused...police were called... had her stomach drained of fluid. Sent home on Friday last...had another fall on Saturday....went to see her this morning..she had another fall and ambulance took her to hospital again.
Because she's so stubborn and negative...72.....they can't help her unless she agrees....meanwhile they send her home to an empty house............cos she told them "my friend and my neighbours will look after me."
It's ridiculous....we are not responsible for her welfare. she has a son up north that she refuses to be notified as her next of kin.
So that leaves us 3...should she come home again. I'm looking after her 2 dogs and others are feeding and watering her geese etc..
Surely there's some agency or other that can step in?
Any suggestions anyone. I don't mind helping but this is getting ridiculous. How long does she have to lie out/in before someone finds her (prob me)...before anyone will do anything definite to save her from herself?
on โ23-01-2014 09:06 AM
any luck with getting the son involved?
on โ23-01-2014 09:23 AM
No. Haven't heard from him and I doubt his mother has either,, seeing she's still talking to me!! lol......I just felt he should be notified, and he has been....can't do more than that.
on โ23-01-2014 11:17 AM
@kengillard wrote:No. Haven't heard from him and I doubt his mother has either,, seeing she's still talking to me!! lol......I just felt he should be notified, and he has been....can't do more than that.
Fair enough.
But remember she isn't your responsibility, you need to take care of yourself first and foremost
on โ23-01-2014 02:39 PM
@bright.ton42 wrote:Honestly, how many of us could say we have neighbours as caring as Kengillard? I certainly haven't.
I think if I was sitting on the pavement they would just cross the street, lol.
I don't really talk to my neighbours much... on one side I have their mobile to let them know if anything bad happens or I need to contact them as they live in two locations, one is inland.
the other I keep an eye on... if I don't see him for a few days I pop in to make sure he is ok. During the tornados and loss of power for five days I cooked him meals and got him ice.
No way would I get as involved as Gill as that would do my head in... I have enough responsibilites.