on โ02-04-2009 01:05 PM
on โ24-09-2016 08:57 PM
So sorry - my thoughts and love to you and you family
โ24-09-2016 09:04 PM - edited โ24-09-2016 09:04 PM
on โ25-09-2016 01:52 PM
Have followed this from the very beginning .. very sorry for your loss .. my thoughts are with you
on โ25-09-2016 07:24 PM
Hi Amy
I've followed this thread from the very beginning, through your ups and downs, your good times and bad and am now saddened to hear the your mother has passed away.
I have tears in my eyes for you and your family, and hope that times are happier for you soon.
Yellow
on โ28-09-2016 10:33 AM
on โ29-09-2016 08:55 PM
A very sad day coming up for you tomorrow daydream. I hope you are ok. xx
on โ06-10-2016 04:58 PM
Am back home after attending my Mums funeral. It was hard. Easily the worst day of my life.
My dad, sister and I attended a viewing and I got to tell her that I loved her, that I was sorry and that the kids and I will be ok, but that wasn't my Mum in the casket. It wasn't the mum I'm going to remember.
I wrote a 5 min eulogy and was able to get through the whole thing. It wasn't until she was being wheeled out and put in the hearse that I lost it. The crying turned into uncontrollable sobbing and then hyperventilating. I was about to collapse when a friend came to help me.
Now it hard to believe she is really gone. I guess that because i really lost her 9 years ago.
i think dad will be ok. He is thinking about going on a cruise. My worry with him is that he has become a hoarder. It's hard to move around his house. He says he will sort it out but I think he's past being able to do that.
on โ06-10-2016 06:43 PM
Hi daydream, I felt the same way when we had mum's viewing. It isn't the way I remember her that's for sure. It does get easier as time passes but it is never easy. I hope your dad will be ok.
on โ06-10-2016 09:08 PM
as the time passes you will start to remember the good things and have a little smile when you think of her, the pain won't be as sharp.
just allow yourself that time.
on โ09-10-2016 11:47 AM