My brother and Self Defense

[herbto3]

My mum and I dont know what to do anymore. We are in the NT. Several weeks ago my brother defended himself against the full on intoxicated estranged spouse as she wanted him to go and buy drugs. He said no and she attacked him twice. He defended himself but since then he has found himself on dvo charges brought on by the cops. 

I feel for my brother as he is a good person and dad but no one is listening to him. The cops wont take away the charges as they see it as domestic volence. They dont see it as self defense. The x sister in law wants the charges dropped but the cops wont drop them. My mum is as she puts it hitting her head against a brick wall trying to get someone to listen to her about this as my brother is an abused husband the victim. Mum says it is not the normal run of the mill case as he is a bloke not a lady. Only ladies get abused not husbands. My brother has stood by his family as his x is a druggy and cant look after the 5 kids properly. He has been their protector.

What I want to do is help my brother and his kids but I dont know how to do it..I dont know who to get mum or brother to talk to. I dont want my brother to kill himself as this is what my mum has been thinking he might do. My brother and mum need help.

Is there anyone out there who could tell me what to say to my brother to help him please? And my mum? Can someone please please help me.... 

[bluecat*dancing]

LOL

[2106greencat]

Good Grief elle - you have lost weight and are looking way too pale, is there something you are not telling us ?

I, on the other hand, am looking as gorgeous as I always have....

[imastawka]

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@2106greencat wrote:

Good Grief elle - you have lost weight and are looking way too pale, is there something you are not telling us ?

I, on the other hand, am looking as gorgeous as I always have....

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 pssst - that cat is not green

[2106greencat]

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@imastawka wrote:

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@2106greencat wrote:

Good Grief elle - you have lost weight and are looking way too pale, is there something you are not telling us ?

I, on the other hand, am looking as gorgeous as I always have....

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 pssst - that cat is not green

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I am wearing make up.......duh....

you try looking glamorous when you are green !

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[2106greencat]

see - that's what happen's when you buy the cheap imported stuff from China.

BTW, I could take offence to that 'caricature' of me, but I am waaaay too important to bother.....My brother is a Smoke Jumper !!

[2106greencat]

All natural pet litter ???????????

Is that a sneaky way of saying  am full of sh.......

[bluecat*dancing]

Please don't mention cat litter.....

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How about.....something a bit more s-e-x-y....