Religious Sect Tells Mothers To Stop Driving

 

Leaders of an ultra-Orthodox Jewish sect in north London have said children who are driven to school by their mothers will be turned away at the school gates.

 

Rabbis from the marginal Hasidic sect Belz have told women in Stamford Hill who drive that they go against “the traditional rules of modesty in our camp”.

 

In a letter sent to parents last week, seen by the Jewish Chronicle, they say there has been an increase in the number of mothers driving their children to school and add that this has led to “great resentment among parents of pupils of our [Hasidic] institutions”.

 

The letter says the ban, to come into force in the summer, is based on the recommendations of Rabbi Yissachar Dov Rokeach, the Belzer spiritual leader in Israel.

 

It says that if a mother has no other choice but to drive her child to school – for medical reasons, for example – she should “submit a request to the special committee to this effect and the committee shall consider her request”.

 

The move has been met with some disagreement within the Orthodox community.

 

Dina Brawer, the UK ambassador of the Jewish Orthodox Feminist Alliance, said: “What this is really about is the curtailing of women’s freedom of movement rendering them dependent on men. It’s an issue of power and control not one of religious sensibility.

 

The Belz, who originated in Ukraine in the early 18th century and established their headquarters in Israel after the second world war, are one of the most prominent Hasidic sects.

 

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Sheesh. These ppl are still living in medieval customs, even though Israel has Hi-tech nuclear weapons. That's scary.

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@zanadoo_56 wrote:

If I was one of these driving mothers I'd tell them to stick it and continue to take the kids to school by car.

 

And when they object I'd take the matter to court.

 

Who do these people think they are?  This is another ridiculous rule typical of stupid men in authority who presumably feel threatened in some way.  Utterly ludicrous.


I don't think it's that easy. You'd face huge opposition from your family and friends, and the community you've grown up with. You'd face ostracism, shame and deprivation.

 

It would take a lot of courage and determination, and the result would not always be worth it.

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Saudi women are now allowed to drive cars..
on video games 🙂

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By the way,how come all the prophets are men? Ever wonder about that?
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@myoclon1cjerk wrote:
By the way,how come all the prophets are men? Ever wonder about that?


No I've never wondered about that. It's perfectly clear.

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@zanadoo_56 wrote:

If I was one of these driving mothers I'd tell them to stick it and continue to take the kids to school by car.

 

And when they object I'd take the matter to court.

 

Who do these people think they are?  This is another ridiculous rule typical of stupid men in authority who presumably feel threatened in some way.  Utterly ludicrous.


I don't think it's that easy. You'd face huge opposition from your family and friends, and the community you've grown up with. You'd face ostracism, shame and deprivation.

 

It would take a lot of courage and determination, and the result would not always be worth it.


Perhaps if these women's husbands now have to take the kids to school instead, family support from at least one corner might be forthcoming.  But honestly, we don't know what this group is like.  If women were previously allowed to drive then the community may not simply roll over and accept this change.  A lot also depends on the person who instituted this rule - is he the type who has made other silly pronouncements, or is on some kind of power trip....or is he a respected member of the community?

 

If it was me, I'd be prepared to defy them.  It could be a matter of the kids' safety to drive them to school.  If that's the case I don't see how any good parent can allow this to happen.

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@zanadoo_56 wrote:

@icyfroth wrote:

@zanadoo_56 wrote:

If I was one of these driving mothers I'd tell them to stick it and continue to take the kids to school by car.

 

And when they object I'd take the matter to court.

 

Who do these people think they are?  This is another ridiculous rule typical of stupid men in authority who presumably feel threatened in some way.  Utterly ludicrous.


I don't think it's that easy. You'd face huge opposition from your family and friends, and the community you've grown up with. You'd face ostracism, shame and deprivation.

 

It would take a lot of courage and determination, and the result would not always be worth it.


Perhaps if these women's husbands now have to take the kids to school instead, family support from at least one corner might be forthcoming.  But honestly, we don't know what this group is like.  If women were previously allowed to drive then the community may not simply roll over and accept this change.  A lot also depends on the person who instituted this rule - is he the type who has made other silly pronouncements, or is on some kind of power trip....or is he a respected member of the community?

 

If it was me, I'd be prepared to defy them.  It could be a matter of the kids' safety to drive them to school.  If that's the case I don't see how any good parent can allow this to happen.


One word:

"groupthink"

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@*julia*2010 wrote:

What this is really about is the curtailing of women’s freedom of movement rendering them dependent on men. It’s an issue of power and control..."

 

 

"Isn't that what all religions are about?"

 

Couldn't agree with you more myoclon.

 

 

 

 

have you heard the saying -

a little knowledge is a dangerous thing?

 

 

what do these women have in common?

 

 

 

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i'll give you a clue -

they're all strong, independent women

and they are religious   Smiley Wink

 

 

 


Yes, they manage to succeed despite their religion and not because of it. 

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Shows what you know ....     or not. 

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@myoclon1cjerk wrote:
By the way,how come all the prophets are men? Ever wonder about that?

errr

 

no because they're not Smiley LOL

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