Stalking

[grandmoon]

How many phone calls a day do you think constitutes stalking ??

[lionrose.7]

What sort of phones calls chatty one or nasty ones

[imastawka]

Nah I got nuthin'

No................wait

I think debt collectors can only contact you three times a week

Any more than that is not allowed.

[grandmoon]

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@lionrose.7 wrote:

What sort of phones calls chatty one or nasty ones

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Its a mixture of both.  Young friends ex will ring him up between 6 and 20 times a day.

Sometimes asking for his help with  the daughter, or needing money, asking to move back in with her or just to abuse him.

[purple_haize]

Get a silent number, then no one can stalk you........make sure it is a number that hasnt been used before.

[imastawka]

Problem is - if it's his daughter too, then he has to be contactable

[vicr3000]

Are you talking a true stawker or nuisance phone call type calls ?

3 or 4,

after having told them EACH time not interested, not to call again, getting more forceful with
Your words each time.

[lloydslights]

Is it your young friend's shared daughter?

If not, advice from the Police? and diarize the calls? 

DEB

[grandmoon]

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@imastawka wrote:

Problem is - if it's his daughter too, then he has to be contactable

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Yes she is his daughter and they have shared custody

[nevillesdaughter]

He might be better off getting some relationship counselling (ideally together with his former partner) to sort out the real issues. Obviously there is unfinished business pertaining to the relationship and it needs to be dealt with before it's the child who pays the real price.

Marina.