Tolerance

[izabsmiling]

http://betolerant.wordpress.com/

Be-Tolerant

Tim Vann 

'Bullying may be defined as the activity of repeated, aggressive behavior intended to hurt another person, physically or mentally. Bullying is characterized by an individual behaving in a certain way to gain power over another person.'

'I am not bullied as an adult. I do not bully as an adult. I know it happens though. People are being ignored, insulted, and mentally tortured by their adult peers. Bullying does not stop in high school, and adults can be just as cruel and mean as teenagers. But one is not supposed to be bullied as an adult; one should be able to deal with criticism. Grow some backbone. Not take it so seriously.

What I believe to be the root of bullying evil is the feeling of superiority we have. My belief is better than your belief. My country is better than your country. My political views are better than yours. If you do not believe what I believe, you are stupid and wrong. And I can tell the whole world you are stupid. Freedom of speech and so on. And teach my children that people that hold different views are stupid. “But my children are not bullies. Not my children. They are respectful and tolerant, just like me.” Right….

Bullying happens when someone is different in the eyes of the bully. Is a threat. If the bully wants to feel better about himself and attacks someone that cannot fend for him/herself.. Bullying is not restricted to the school or sports we use to go to. Is has nothing to do with age.

But I suppose that the once you have been bullied, you will always remember your first bullies. How hard and unfair it was. Arbitrarily even in most cases. Because you had glasses or funny teeth. The memory and pain will always stay with you. I hope you are being treated better now.

I hope that one day there will be no more bullying. But that is not enough for me. No more racism. No more religious battles fought with real bombs and guns. No more intolerance towards gays and lesbians.

It takes more to make better world. A lot more. From everybody. And not only after your cried about a teenage suicide. All the time. Developed yourself. Learn about a different culture. Accept differences. Because if you will not, I bet your children will neither.'

[joz*garage]

I saw what was written in those group applications too, funny to you mebbe, but geeze..how vulgar.

[*crikey*mate*]

You don't know the difference lol

hmmmm face to face opposed to 'strangers' on the internet. *shakes head*

So if it happens on the internet, it's not bullying?

[j*oono]

I don't do vulgar, Joz.  

[flashie*]

Sheepie..............in answer to the message you sent me last night............I prefer to answer you here.............I have no wish to be privately messaging with you.

If the zero Id's are not you then you have nothing to be concerned about if they are reported.

[azureline**]

I did that azureline** - not only to Iza but also to the posters whom I felt were harassing her.

I was simply reminding them of the option available to them if they did not like what Iza was posting and in Iza's case because the things that were being said were unacceptable and hurtful to her.

I actually meant in the thread, using the word as a means of intimidation, not using the option of the button. I have suggested it's use myself at times.

[the_hawk*]

You don't know the difference lol

hmmmm face to face opposed to 'strangers' on the internet. *shakes head*

so if your out with some friends having dinner at some restaurant you wouldn't have an issue with a stranger sitting at your table and joining you, yer right :^O

[*crikey*mate*]

Sheepie..............in answer to the message you sent me last night............I prefer to answer you here.............I have no wish to be privately messaging with you.

If the zero Id's are not you then you have nothing to be concerned about if they are reported.

And I'm pretty sure that's pretty much what I wrote, no? I am pretty sure that I encouraged you to report them if you suspected that they were mine - which your posts in the RTR thread did seem to suggest LOL

[azureline**]

Sheepie..............in answer to the message you sent me last night............I prefer to answer you here.............I have no wish to be privately messaging with you.

If the zero Id's are not you then you have nothing to be concerned about if they are reported.

that could have been done without id'ing her. She would know who you meant.

[twinkles**stars]

So if it happens on the internet, it's not bullying?

Being excluded from a group is not bullying......but then you knew that

[*crikey*mate*]

Hey!

Iza wanted general discussion of the topic, so that's what I'm doing.......

I'm haveing a general discussion about bullying.