13-09-2020 11:44 PM - edited 13-09-2020 11:46 PM
Got a text from my sister to say she was in town and inviting the family around to meet "Her son, " a nephew I didn't know I had. Sis worked in aboriginal health in remote Arnhem Land for many years and was adopted into the local Yongal tribe ( my spelling, I cant find anything on the internet to get it right ) by the leading clans family. Her " son" ( by clan adoption) DJ is a 28 YO indigenous man who was a tribal spiritual healer and in training to become a tribal elder. His grandfather is the tribal king.
The Yongal where the last tribe in Australia to have any major interactions with the whites and still live a very traditional lifestyle including hunting with spears, using dug out canoes and following traditional ceremony etc. It wasn't until the mid 1970,s when Rio Tinto began mining in the area that they encountered western civilisation on a regular basis.
My teenage daughter came with us, but as she was a female " cousin " she was not allowed to shake hands with DJ or look at him. She had to keep her head bowed to avoid eye contact.
We where treated to a night of traditional aboriginal didgeridoo music with each song a tribal history or totem. The most moving part of the night was when my brother in law, asked DJ to perform a healing ceremony on my wife. She is recovering from cancer and has had a lot of health issues. DJ performed sacred didgeridoo music, blowing the music into my wife's chest.
It was a fascinating evening learning about DJ,s culture and views on the world. DJ is a very sensitive, quiet and intelligent young man who is deeply traditional in his outlook but understands how his people can work co-operatively with westerners for mutual benefit. He has been educated in Melbourne for a time under a sporting scholarship and has played football for one of the well known AFL teams. Even so there where still some language barriers and my sister had to interpret at times. She is fluent in the traditional language.
The tribe has a good relationship with Rio Tinto and has found them sensitive to the importance of cultural sites. It sounded completely different to the recent unfortunate incidents elsewhere. Perhaps the difference is DJ,s tribe have complete control over their lands and can order Rio Tinto off at any time.
I wasn't aware we still had indigenous tribes still practicing traditional culture and lifestyles in Australia. All up a fascinating evening and if DJ is any reflection, his tribe is in very safe hands.
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on 14-09-2020 11:01 AM
Then it was an interesting experience.
14-09-2020 12:11 PM - edited 14-09-2020 12:12 PM
One other thought on the daughter being asked to observe " poison cousin " distance. DJ has come down from his tribal lands to visit his adopted " mother " for an few weeks. The very worst possible outcome would be if a tribal healer and potential future tribal king found romance with a young western woman while he was down here. Cousin aside, it would cause immense shame to my sister and destroy one of the last remaining genetically pure indigenous bloodlines left in the country.
on 14-09-2020 12:53 PM
We can only hope there was no Romeo & Juliet moments.
And I think ' King ' is a bit exulted.
Aboriginal people did not traditionally have kings or chiefs. ... By appointing kings of tribes, and granting them king plates, the white colonial powers went against the more collegiate grain of traditional Aboriginal culture.
on 14-09-2020 01:07 PM
@domino-710 wrote:We can only hope there was no Romeo & Juliet moments.
And I think ' King ' is a bit exulted.
Aboriginal people did not traditionally have kings or chiefs. ... By appointing kings of tribes, and granting them king plates, the white colonial powers went against the more collegiate grain of traditional Aboriginal culture.
I thought exactly the same thing, but it was my sister who used the term and DJ who confirmed his grandfather was the tribal leader. I can only assume different tribes had different customs and to simply adopt generic western views that all tribes where the same ( such as your quote from Wikapedia ) is probably not doing justice to the diverse practices of over 100 traditional tribes.
I,m not claiming any special knowledge, ( quite the contrary in fact ) . I,m simply recounting an experience that wasn't quite what I expected when I walked out the door last night to have a few quiet drinks with my sister. Life's like that. You never know when the totally unexpected will just pop up out of left field.
on 14-09-2020 01:14 PM
Same here Cham - just found it really interesting.
Even came up with Yothu Yindi.
on 14-09-2020 01:38 PM
I gather the leadership thing relates to his particular clan which has a specific tribal name. ( something along the lines of Wirrindja ) There are other clans also with tribe names in the wider Yonglu tribe, but an overarching system of custom relating to marriage, blood lines and land ownership. Basically a fairly complex social structure involving separate tribal groups under a larger organised tribe.
on 14-09-2020 01:47 PM
Well - I'm hoping the healing music did well for Mrs Cham.