"Why wouldn't you try to lose some weight?"

[the_bob_delusion]

Someone was telling me about her close friend that desperately wants to get married and have kids but she has essentially conceded any chances of that because of her weight and she knows it. She is tallish and has a very pretty face and eats like a horse and makes no effort to lose the weight.

Is it wrong to tell someone to lose some weight for their own good? 

[the_great_she_elephant]

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@the_bob_delusion wrote:

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@the_great_she_elephant wrote:

I suspect these men have some sort of mental disorder.

Or maybe they are "full bodied' themselves - had that possibility never occurred to you?

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Are you saying that they can't get anyone else except for the left overs?

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No more than you are saying "full bodied" women can only get the mentally disordered. 

[*pepe]

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@the_bob_delusion wrote:

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@lind9650 wrote:

I buy two magazines each week. Not the celebrity gossip mags, but real life stories.

Plenty of wedding photos and stories every week with real life brides that are not skinny by any means. And the grooms claim to have found their soul mate, love and cherish the woman for their personality, not for the Kilograms.

Wake up Bob. There is a real life out there with people of all shapes and sizes, and most of them find a loving and caring partner.

Has nothing to do with mental disorders. At the contrary. Men that look for the perfect body and Barbi Doll face in a partner, do have a mental problem as far as I am concerned.

Erica

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You're missing the point of OP. She can have what she wants if she just lost some weight but she choose not to. It's not a case of she accepts she has diabetes and has no option of doing anything about it. 

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i really doubt her weight is what is holding her back, its more likely there is some unresolved self esteem and emotional issues , quite possibly she is hiding behind her weight to avoid facing whatever issues she may have.

[the_bob_delusion]

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@the_great_she_elephant wrote:

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@the_bob_delusion wrote:

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@the_great_she_elephant wrote:

I suspect these men have some sort of mental disorder.

Or maybe they are "full bodied' themselves - had that possibility never occurred to you?

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Are you saying that they can't get anyone else except for the left overs?

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No more than you are saying "full bodied" women can only get the mentally disordered. 

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Give me one well adjusted adult that would preferentially prefer women to be obsese like this.  

[youcandoityoucandoityoucandoit]

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@the_bob_delusion wrote:

Someone was telling me about her close friend that desperately wants to get married and have kids but she has essentially conceded any chances of that because of her weight and she knows it. She is tallish and has a very pretty face and eats like a horse and makes no effort to lose the weight.

Is it wrong to tell someone to lose some weight for their own good? 

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Hang on, if Im understanding this correctly, youre saying that this woman doesnt have a partner, but wants to get married and have kids, and that she thinks this wont happen because she is overweight and thinks that being overweight is the reason she doesnt have a partner, isnt married and also doesnt have children.

Is that what you are saying?

[the_great_she_elephant]

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@the_bob_delusion wrote:

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@the_great_she_elephant wrote:

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@the_bob_delusion wrote:

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@the_great_she_elephant wrote:

I suspect these men have some sort of mental disorder.

Or maybe they are "full bodied' themselves - had that possibility never occurred to you?

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Are you saying that they can't get anyone else except for the left overs?

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No more than you are saying "full bodied" women can only get the mentally disordered. 

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Give me one well adjusted adult that would preferentially prefer women to be obsese like this.  

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Is this a photo of the woman in your OP?

Are you suggesting that all, or most overweight women look like this?

If not, it is a pretty spurious argument.

[lionrose.7]

Bob Said:

Supposely I'm  bold, fat and ugly which I just happened to be What's your point? Just coz' someone is fat doesn't mean he/she has to resort to  choosing a fat partner right?

Well Bob why are you not trying to lose weight and do you have a partner?

[nicnacs_4u]

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@the_bob_delusion wrote:

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@the_great_she_elephant wrote:

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@the_bob_delusion wrote:

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@the_great_she_elephant wrote:

I suspect these men have some sort of mental disorder.

Or maybe they are "full bodied' themselves - had that possibility never occurred to you?

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Are you saying that they can't get anyone else except for the left overs?

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No more than you are saying "full bodied" women can only get the mentally disordered. 

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Give me one well adjusted adult that would preferentially prefer women to be obsese like this.  

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Grow up Bob why the need to show a pic like this?imo it`s in bad taste and very sad that the lady pictured seems to be enjoying  having her pic taken

[joz*garage]

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@the_bob_delusion wrote:

Someone was telling me about her close friend that desperately wants to get married and have kids but she has essentially conceded any chances of that because of her weight and she knows it. She is tallish and has a very pretty face and eats like a horse and makes no effort to lose the weight.

Is it wrong to tell someone to lose some weight for their own good? 

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why do you care..got the hots for her, huh?

[imastawka]

Give me one well adjusted adult that would preferentially prefer women to be obsese like this.

Her husband might object to that statement, Bob.

And they have 2 kids.