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[cat_mioux]

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[b3llag1na]

c*j I am beginning to think you might need to contact the police to help you on this one - YOU have the right to go there and retrieve your mother's belongings - that has already been established. I am quite sure it is within your rights to have people help you retireve these items, for example what if there where heavy items of furniture??

There would be nothing wrong with you calling into the police station on the way, and simply asking if you could have an escort as you are afraid what may happen to you. After all - you have the legal right to these items!

[my2cuddlycats_not]

Ok's and big smile. ( and a lot of deep breaths)XXXXX

[youcandoityoucandoityoucandoit]

Morning everyone:-)

I have been awol but Ive read back a bit-thanks braff for the books!!They came in handy in the catch up..

Wanted to send a big love shout out to (((cj))) I will be thinking of you today and sending calm clear headed energy your way..I know you will feel your mum nearby as well..Perhaps she can distract that mr from your search missionB-) I would involve the solicitor again-perhaps have them phone him to check that alls well..it sounds as if hes a bit wary of her,and it might encourage him to do the right thing.I dont know about the rates etc-but its only money in the long term.If your instinct is right, its best for you to be clear of him.

If this is helpful-try to focus on the personal things your mum left,other' stuff' is just that- stuff.I remember(my partners family)a particular argument about a microwave and a loungesuite..wt?both adult children had these already,it was just a power play.People can behave appalingly in this situation,but stay focussed on what your mum wanted.

be strong (((cj)))

higs and hugs to all-ms Cat:-x-I was wondering how little Ava:-x is travelling??keep up that chanting kitty:-x

[thebraff]

:^O  Glad to be of assistance YCDI  :-x

I've been wondering where you were.

This is just a quick post...(ie no book)

CJ I am wearing OK's for you today.  All the best to you *big hug*

[cat_mioux]

Hi everybodies!

I chanted for you last night Ms Jacks for a harmonious day today for you. I hope and pray everything worked out well. Let us know, we are all here supporting you.

YCDI how extraordinary!  I thought about you yesterday and how lovely and kind your little Ava cross-stitch gift was and how much Sally and M appreciated it. I haven't heard any recent news but no news is good news! Miss Kitty and J are spending Christmas in England and it will be the first time they get to hold their little neice. J is beside himself with excitement!

MIss Kitty was going to shout me a ticket so I could go with them but my boss won't give me the time off, because "Xmas is our busiest time"  *grrrrr*. They did send an email out advising no leave will be granted in December but sheesh I thought they could have made an exception.

Higs and hugs to the lucky Mrs Braff, Kylie darling, Cuddlybunny, B3lla and all whom post.

[witches*wol]

Evening  All

Crazy Jack I am wearing my OK's for you too, I read your post last night and have thought of you through out today and sending positive energy your way.

Today is my mum's 10th Anniversary in Heaven 😞

I still can't believe she's been gone 10 years ~ still miss her heaps.

[jack*in*a*box]

Oh Witches (hugs) I hope it gets easier to accept after that long but I know it never hurts any less regardless of time.

Me, master 17 and my brother were the only people allowed in the house to collect mums things. We were initially allowed 48 hours. After 23 hours, brother falls for Mr.B's tear jerking moment and says, enough Jack. We finish now.

So I have almost everything that I wanted out of the house and back home. I'm so relieved and I'm still coming down from the stress of it all. I had to have words with Mr.B about a few items. Some of them belonged to mum and dad when I was 5 y.o and he argued that it was his! Luckily my brother confirmed that no, it was mums and dads and he could even remember the address we lived at when it was purchased.

Brother tried to act as the mediator trying to please me but also trying to please Mr. B who is accusing us of 'raping' the house. We only took mums stuff (which was most of it) and I was most polite asking if there was any particular item he would like to keep. I sometimes negotiated with him about keeping his favourite out of a collection for example. It truly made my stress levels reach overlaod though when he asked me to not keep THAT light on too long as it uses a lot of power. (It was mums bedroom light as we were packing mum's room after dark). Thank goodness Master 17 was so helpful and worked hard all day because don't see that I will be allowed back,

BTW, we left Mr. B heaps of stuff. Almost everything was mums and we left a fair bit of it and we aren't required to.

Hopefully my brother will return to get mums car (as discussed) and the other few items I had to leave after his teary episode.

All in all, I'm really pleased that I have mum's things. I feel like she is very pleased with me.

I'm exhausted and my thighs ache and heading to bed.

Goodnight my OK friends. :-x Thank you for your good wishes...I reckon they were heard.

[youcandoityoucandoityoucandoit]

Evening everyone:-)

(((cj))) just popped in and you had posted-am glad that you are home safe and sound.

good to read your son(is that james crazy?)and brother were there supporting you..Im sure you are absolutely spent.please have a good sleep ,its been a huge couple of weeks for you..

am thinking of you,sending you a huge hug.:-x

higs and hugs for others,lurking or mia-Its full moon time again! mwahhh hah hah (thats supposed to be a spooky sound):^O

[jack*in*a*box]

Yep. It was full moon when mum died too. I layed in her bed and had the moonlight shine of me through a stained glass bluebird. It was so beautiful and comforting.

I now have that same stained glass bluebird above my bed :-x

[jack*in*a*box]

Master 17 is actually master 18 (I'm def. spent) and yes, that is James Crazy. He is such a terrific son :-x