What excuses do you use?

[the_bob_delusion]

http://news.nationalpost.com/2014/07/22/whos-the-worst-frustrated-husband-creates-no-sex-spreadsheet...

[nevillesdaughter]

Joan Rivers says "It's been so long since I had sex that I can't even remember who gets tied up....".

Marina.

[lionrose.7]

[buzzlightyearsgirlfriend]

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And really only 3 times in 6 weeks at age 26 - there is something not working right in that relationship....

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Maybe he was disgustingly smelly or gross or something and she was just too nice/afraid to tell him what a feral pig he is/was?

[the_bob_delusion]

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@*pepe wrote:

i don't see anything childish and unacceptable about him laying it out in black and white in a spreadsheet so she can see just how it has been.

Often seeing it in print can wake someone up rather than jus hearing it.

What i think is childish and unacceptable is her making their private life public on the internet.

And really only 3 times in 6 weeks at age 26 - there is something not working right in that relationship....

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Agreed with the wife making her private life public. 

Something ain't quite right in this relationship. 3 times in 6 weeks. Poor form, if you love someone you would at least try to please them. 

[sineaterdoodah]

i have 2. i live with the legal one,have for over 31 years. the other one i visit when i can afford planefare,and talk to daily. been with him 5 years now. you sort of know that one. brad.

[the_bob_delusion]

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@sineaterdoodah wrote:

why is that stories like this are always about WOMEN denying sex? have they evr met any REAL women,who LOVE sex? just as much as their MEN do? i hate this **bleep**,it's discriminating,demeaning, and NONE of the men i know would agree with it. 

but then ,THEY ,like my husbands,are in GOOD relationships. 

makes a difference,eh,what????

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The facts of the matter is that women can go without it which is not to say they don't love sex. 

There is a  stigma that women shouldn't instigate sex because it's unlady like. 

I however find it a turn on when a women tries. 

[sineaterdoodah]

i am fortunate that i was NEVER ladylike,lol! 

[annies_fancy_dress]

That spreadsheet did not have every day on it.

What happened on the other days, was he away? Was he watching the footy that night?

Were these the nights he couldn't be bothered and just "handled" the situation in the bath or shower?

Did he ever think of enticing her, or is he a "please have sex with me, pls pls...?

I have tried many times to tell my bf how to entice me and he simply won't learn!

PLS, PLS, PLS DOES NOT WORK!

If he really wanted it, he'd entice me!

WHICH would make the idea more appealing other times as well.

[the_bob_delusion]

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@annies_fancy_dress wrote:

That spreadsheet did not have every day on it.

What happened on the other days, was he away? Was he watching the footy that night?

Were these the nights he couldn't be bothered and just "handled" the situation in the bath or shower?

Did he ever think of enticing her, or is he a "please have sex with me, pls pls...?

I have tried many times to tell my bf how to entice me and he simply won't learn!

PLS, PLS, PLS DOES NOT WORK!

If he really wanted it, he'd entice me!

WHICH would make the idea more appealing other times as well.

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Why is it his job to entice you?

[lloydslights]

From the initial press release I gathered she was a gym enthusiast.   

Perhaps he should go to the gym with her.  They could watch each other get hot and sweaty.  He could entice her with his abs and glutenous maximus whilst he is on the treadmill.

I think perhaps, she is going to another jim altogether.

DEB