Buyers repeadetly not paying for offers
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on โ18-02-2024 10:20 AM
I've been selling some products to get rid of them, and I've had offers enabled to hopefully get quicker sales. But about 3 times I've received a reasonable offer and accepted it, but around 1-2 days later the buyer contacts me and says something like "I bought it by mistake" or "I didn't know I have to pay when I make an offer". Most of these accounts are old ones that have bought and sold with positive feedback. Is it possible they've been hacked? Next time I'm turning offers off, but is there anything I can do if anything like this happens again? I'll post some of my messages with these buyers.
Many Thanks
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on โ18-02-2024 11:18 AM
Thats life it happen.
Just cancel the prder, they get a strike against their name. Block them, and turn on block buyers with strikes.
Dont get upset move on, the world is a funny place, they may have made multiple offers and took a better one, or some other reason.
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on โ18-02-2024 12:07 PM
'I bought it by mistake' means they have changed their mind. It's hard to buy by 'mistake'.
If someone doesn't pay, don't go sending messages or re-invoicing them. From what I have read, that latter action simply extends their due date to pay.
If they don't pay, make an ebay claim for an unpaid item as soon as the system lets you.
I think when you have 'make an offer', you might sometimes get people who aren't dead keen on buying but they are tempted to 'maybe consider it' if they can get it cheaper. As a buyer, I think make an offer is great, but then, if I make an offer it is because I really do want it. What helps though (from a buyer perspective) is if a seller has their limits pre set. That means if my offer is under what they want, I will get an immediate rejection & if it is acceptable, I also get an immediate answer, so I know where I am.
I can't see any harm in you continuing with "make an offer' if you have those things set up. If you do want to personally consider each offer before deciding, you need to be able to give a reasonably quick reply. Within 2-6 hours would be ideal.
As to whether the buyer accounts have been hacked, hard to say. Probably not. There are plenty of people who have been on ebay for years but have never read up on all the Terms & conditions.
Don't worry about it too much, just make a cancellation asap. Quite honestly, if someone has had an offerr accepted and hasn't paid within 2 days, then I think they are unlikely to and you're just wasting your time writing tto them.
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on โ18-02-2024 12:29 PM
I think eBay gives buyers 4 days to pay so wait 4 days and then cancel with the reason "buyer did not pay". This way you will be refunded fees and item will automatically be relisted( I think? Maybe a seller can confirm). But more importantly the buyer will get a strike against them.
Make sure you have your buyer requirements set up so that anyone with more than 2 strikes cannot buy from you. This will weed out serial offenders.
You could of course cancel before the 4 days is up (using buyer requested) but the non payment reason will not be there and therefore buyer will not suffer any consequences and I'm not sure what happens with fees in that case.
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on โ18-02-2024 12:36 PM
@springyzone wrote:' Quite honestly, if someone has had an offerr accepted and hasn't paid within 2 days, then I think they are unlikely to and you're just wasting your time writing tto them.
Exactly, its the same if they do a BIN, send the original invoice (if they havent paid), but dont send anymore. Ebay send reminders, and you are just stretching out the 4 days and 1 second till you can open a not paid case if you keep sending invoices.
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on โ18-02-2024 12:38 PM
@cam-2793 wrote:I think eBay gives buyers 4 days to pay so wait 4 days and then cancel with the reason "buyer did not pay". This way you will be refunded fees and item will automatically be relisted( I think? Maybe a seller can confirm). But more importantly the buyer will get a strike against them.
Make sure you have your buyer requirements set up so that anyone with more than 2 strikes cannot buy from you. This will weed out serial offenders.
You could of course cancel before the 4 days is up (using buyer requested) but the non payment reason will not be there and therefore buyer will not suffer any consequences and I'm not sure what happens with fees in that case.
No the item isnt automatically relisted, but doesnt take much effort
I am reasonably certain , if the seller cancels as ''buyer request'' the buyer can still leave negative feedback, so you are running the risk, that they planned to pay on day 3 or 4, and will give you a neg. Safer to wait the 4 days
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on โ18-02-2024 12:50 PM
@jess951,
Sadly there are tyre-kickers out thereโฆ but when a buyer doesnโt pay, youโll help yourself most by taking a professional approach to it.
1. Definitely do not message the buyer saying that if they donโt pay, youโll cancel. Of course if they donโt want to up ahead, theyโll seize on that. Just let the 4-day period go by without any further reminder or communication from you; eBay already send a payment reminder. Once the 4 days has passed, the option to cancel with the reason โBuyer didnโt payโ appears. (Previous to the 4-day period passing, the cancellation options donโt include that.) Select that option; the buyer will receive a well-deserved invisible NPB strike. (Non-paying bidder/buyer.)
2. Make sure your buyer requirements are properly set up. In particular:
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Buyers with Unpaid Item strikes
3. If you do need to communicate with a buyer, itโs none of their business (and of no interest to them) how many people have won items from you and failed to pay. Donโt overshare, and donโt think that threatening to cancel or explaining youโve been let down before will induce a buyer who doesnโt want to pay to do the correct thing and pay you.
4. You might be best off listing as Buy Now with a firm price and immediate payment required.
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on โ18-02-2024 01:29 PM
Try doing a small counter offer instead of accepting their offer which can help weed out buyers that won't pay and keeps the item still listed.
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on โ18-02-2024 02:20 PM
And - if they accept your ' small ' counter offer. ??
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on โ18-02-2024 02:22 PM
Just an up - I'd keep it a little more professional than - hey dude - hey mate - mate.
Not good to waste your time - so don't.

