Stupid Buyer!!..Please Help

[black_ninja_victoria]

hi there guys can you please give me advice...i sold an item but had to refund the money due to supplier issue, the buyer paid direct to my bank account and i told him friday, the last 3 days he has put up on my facebook and various sites that i ripped him off etc...i have sent ebay a message about what the buyer did and what he posted, are they allowed to do this?...is ebay at fault for giving him my details and phone number???..need advice please!!!

[transport-posters]

There's probably been "Stupid Seller!!..Please Help" posts before in the buying forum. 🙂

[thecatspjs]

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@lyndal1838 wrote:

Must admit I nearly didn't open this thread.  Calling a buyer stupid does not sit well with me either Stawks.

Rather than "stupid" I would have called him annoyed.

But his behaviour is hardly acceptable either.

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Um ...... when you start applying this rule to others that regularly post on these boards and draw attention to their posts for calling buyers and sellers by the term "numpties"  then someone might believe your post above is sincere.

[davewil1964]

Can we expect to see something constructive from you during your, probably, limited current window of opportunity?

[thecatspjs]

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@davewil1964 wrote:

Can we expect to see something constructive from you during your, probably, limited current window of opportunity?

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LOL thats quite pot kettle  🙂

If you mean that you intend reporting my posts then knock yourself out.  If you mean something else ... same.

[lyndal1838]

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@thecatspjs wrote:

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@lyndal1838 wrote:

Must admit I nearly didn't open this thread.  Calling a buyer stupid does not sit well with me either Stawks.

Rather than "stupid" I would have called him annoyed.

But his behaviour is hardly acceptable either.

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Um ...... when you start applying this rule to others that regularly post on these boards and draw attention to their posts for calling buyers and sellers by the term "numpties"  then someone might believe your post above is sincere.

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Please show me where I have called anyone a numpty.

Do you ever offer anything constructive on the boards these days?

[thecatspjs]

That you do not find my views or comments as constructive is your problem, not mine.   Maybe start a thread on that ??  

I did not post that YOU called anyone a numpty.    I was referring to your silence over many years and numerous posts when very regular posters post that others are numpties. 

My comments are on topic -  as you raised the issue of calling buyers stupid in an earlier post.  I was very surprised to see your comment as a regular who has never indicated they had a problem with this.

It would be great if you continue to speak and up and discourage regulars from using stupid or numpties when referring to eBayers in their posts too 

[lyndal1838]

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@thecatspjs wrote:

That you do not find my views or comments as constructive is your problem, not mine.   Maybe start a thread on that ??  

It would be great if you continue to speak and up and discourage regulars from using stupid or numpties when referring to eBayers in their posts too 

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Why would I start a thread on what is constructive or not constructive?

My opinion is not an ebay problem, which is the purpose of these boards.

As I have NEVER started a thread on any topic I am hardly likely to start with the topic of my opinion of what is constructive and what is not.....neither will I discourage anyone from using any terms that they see fit to use.

[thecatspjs]

"  Calling a buyer stupid does not sit well with me either Stawks.

Rather than "stupid" I would have called him annoyed"

Sorry I took your comments as discouraging calling buyers stupid.

Maybe you were encouraging it then.  I can't see it myself, but thats ok, many perspectives on a thread are better than the same ol' same ol'

[davewil1964]

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@thecatspjs wrote:

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@davewil1964 wrote:

Can we expect to see something constructive from you during your, probably, limited current window of opportunity?

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LOL thats quite pot kettle  🙂

If you mean that you intend reporting my posts then knock yourself out.  If you mean something else ... same.

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No way. Too much comedic value.

But, if a question is asked and I have A solution I will post it. A bit differrent to just slagging off at regulars who invest their time...

[thecatspjs]

*yawn* 

post above doesn't even seek to disguise interpersonal attack

*bigger yawn*

poor, poor Davewil ...... so glad I could throw you a laugh .... seems to me you need a few....