At what age is it okay for a sleep over?

[givemeaspell]

For your son/daughter to allow their partners to spend the night (same bed) in your family home?

[azureline**]

Same rules for both boys and girls in our home. Any sleepovers/parties were conducted with separate sleeping arrangements.

[sandym3369]

😐

Step daughter moved in with her boyfriend at sixteen. She is now almost nineteen and they are still together. Step son sixteen has never had a girl stay over and he has never stayed at her place but he has managed to get her pregnant and they want to keep it . 

[twinkles**stars]

Turning the question around....would you expect your adult child to allow you to stay in their home with a new partner?

This was raised a few months ago when a young friends mother was coming to stay from interstate with her newish boyfriend.

[i-need-a-martini]

would you expect your adult child to allow you to stay in their home with a new partner?

What is this? The Victorian Era?? 😮

Of course this is OK.

[twinkles**stars]

That's the parents new partner lol

[stellan*river]

That's the parents new partner lol

are you talking about you.

[vampire-teddy]

it would  depend on the individual child and the type of relationship they had with their partner, but no younger than 16

[vintage-star]

Only if married,sleep overs of that nature would make me feel very uncomfortable.....and no! I am not a prude. 

[crystal**flake]

Mine are 21 and have respected our feelings, not one sleep over either way.

[azureline**]

are you talking about you.

waves to LC.